Finding Love
If you’re single and hoping to settle down, finding your ideal partner may seem impossible at times – but by making lifestyle adjustments you could increase the odds of meeting them sooner rather than later. By diversifying your dating life and increasing opportunities to meet potential partners you could increase the chance that someone special comes along.
Try to understand what it feels like to be in love. People in love tend to feel both nervous and excited at once – an exciting yet uncertain feeling of anticipation is a sure sign of being attracted. So it makes sense that butterflies in your stomach could be an early indicator of infatuation.
Consider what qualities and characteristics you require from a partner. Have you made a list? Creating an objective picture of what it is you need from relationships can help prevent time being wasted with incompatible individuals. An easy place to start this process may be by reviewing past dates; if they weren’t suitable matches it may have been because you were expecting too much or were searching for qualities they weren’t offering you.
By clearly outlining what type of person you seek, it will allow you to ensure you only date those who share your priorities and values – thus preventing yourself from falling prey to superficial aspects such as appearance or money that are often too easily caught up in in relationships in an emotional moment.
Trust takes time and effort to build. If someone you trusted in the past has hurt you, it may be difficult for them to open up again – especially if you suffer from anxiety, depression or any mental health conditions that cause low self-esteem.
Love provides unsurpassable support. In a loving relationship, your partner wants nothing more than for you to succeed and can serve as an invaluable source of motivation to do better in all areas of your life. This emotional boost is priceless! Love can provide you with strength to overcome seemingly insurmountable challenges. In this sense, love’s magic lies in its transformative power – both frightening and thrilling at once – it can change everything around us for the better if given enough attention and care. So what are you waiting for? Get involved now! Will You Be Prepared for Meeting the Right Partner?? This article originally appeared in The Conversation and has been updated for accuracy. 2019 The Conversation; all rights reserved under Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 International license.
